
04/28/2025 11:16am
Property Management- Save 8 % Fees, Lose 80 % Sanity — The Truth About Managing from 2,000 Miles Away
In this episode of ‘The 20 Minute Investor,’ we discuss the complexities of property management and the crucial decision of whether to self-manage or hire a property manager. We share...
In this episode
🎙 Episode Title: Should You Self-Manage or Hire a Property Manager? | Real Talk for Remote Rental Investors
In this episode of The 20 Minute Investor, we dive into one of the most important—and often underestimated—decisions in real estate investing: self-managing vs. hiring a property manager.
Join your hosts, Erin and Nathan, as they share personal stories and hard-earned lessons from managing properties across distances. Whether you’re just getting started or scaling up, this conversation sheds light on how property management choices directly impact your lifestyle, time freedom, and sanity—especially for remote investors.
We break down the real costs, common pitfalls, and key considerations to help you make the smartest decision for your investment strategy.
📌 Episode Chapters:
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00:00 – Introduction to Property Management Challenges
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00:26 – Meet Your Hosts: Erin and Nathan
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00:59 – Biggest Mistake: Underestimating Property Management
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01:44 – Erin’s Self-Management Journey
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02:19 – Nathan’s Approach to Property Management
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04:01 – The Realities of Property Management
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05:19 – Lessons Learned and Final Thoughts
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09:54 – Balancing Family and Property Management
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12:17 – The Cost of Self-Management
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13:55 – Dealing with Property Managers
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17:47 – Conclusion and Call to Action
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the job of property management and the
job of a property manager is a pretty
crappy job but what you come to
understand is that the property manager
a good property manager does more than
just collect rent i actually did some
math on what we saved over the course of
5 years of self-management and on
management fees alone it was close to
$45,000 the business model of property
management is fundamentally flawed
Meet Your Hosts: Erin and Nathan
people either have to get really big in
order to make enough profit all right
welcome back to our special podcast
series The 20-minute Investor where we
bring you actionable nuggets and
insights from our real estate investing
journeys in bite-sized 20inut episodes
i’m Aaron Amin my wife and I built a
portfolio of eight cash flowing rentals
across three states while working
full-time and raising a young family and
I’m Nathan i’m a husband father a tech
executive who built a portfolio of cash
flowing rentals across two states from
over 2,000 m away together we co-founded
the Remote Real Estate Academy where we
coach investors on how to build their
own portfolios of cash flowing rentals
from anywhere in the world all right
Biggest Mistake: Underestimating Property Management
this week we are going to dive into
mistake number two out of our 5-day
email course on the biggest mistakes
that new remote rental investors face
mistake number two is underestimating
property management challenges so
specifically why investors potentially
overlook some of the complexities that
come along with managing a rental
especially from afar and why that
oversight can lead to your property
going neglected turning into a money pit
of deferred maintenance and potential
issues with tenants and then of course
uh instead of just complaining about
problems we will share our thoughts on
how you might avoid this mistake so one
thing I love about this topic that I
think Nathan and I are going to have fun
with is that we took two different paths
we have very we have a lot of parallels
in our stories but management is not one
of them for the most part my wife and I
Erin’s Self-Management Journey
managed we self-managed our properties
even remotely for the majority of the
time that we’ve owned them it was
actually only last year in 2024 that we
brought on thirdparty managers in each
of the three markets now Nathan on the
other hand a much smarter person than I
am understood from the get-go that
property management is more complex than
most people think and decided to go with
the third party property manager and set
up kind of a layered system of oversight
so maybe what what we do here is kind of
present our base case for why we did
what we did and uh let’s start with the
with the more measured and probably
balanced approach of uh of what you did
Nathan’s Approach to Property Management
Nathan uh well I don’t know that I’m
smarter but um I also know that I had
constraints in my life that kind of
forced me to go down this path not only
are all of the properties in our rental
portfolio thousands of miles away so I
didn’t have access to them uh but also
and maybe more importantly for for us
for myself and my wife it was really
about not sacrificing our family lives
or our professional lives both my wife
and I have full-time jobs that we love
we have two young kids that we love
obviously we want to be there be present
spend time together her and I as well so
we very intentionally were looking at
ways and systems and whatever options
were available to us to not pick up
another job of managing you know rental
properties especially because we knew
from the get-go we weren’t just buying
the one property and you know the one
and done we knew we wanted to scale we
knew we wanted to get this to you know a
number of properties whatever that I
don’t know that there is a final number
or goal in mind but it was more than one
and it was enough that you know we could
replace over time either one of our
incomes or at the very least provide a
better kind of retirement for ourselves
so we knew that you know potentially
having to manage one would be okay
without sacrificing you know too much of
our you know lives but what about when
we have 10 12 you know 20 would that
still be the case so we from the start
always engaged with you know property
management because we wanted to delegate
as much of that work as we possibly
could and that was by choice and by
constraint because we didn’t want to
sacrifice more time the the other thing
as well is when we started thinking
about this with my wife is like the the
and I’ll be curious to hear what your
thoughts are because you’ve obviously
you know self-managed some of your
properties but if you think about it the
The Realities of Property Management
job of property management and the job
of a property manager is a pretty crappy
job if you think about it because
they’re kind of stuck in between you
know a rock and a hard place you know
the rock being the owner investor who
wants to squeeze every last you know
drop of uh blood they can out of this
you know rental property so that it
performs at its best and it brings as
much possible money you know as you
could possibly get from uh a rental you
want to be cheap on repairs you don’t
want to spend any money all this stuff
and then the hard place is the tenant
who are on the opposite side they want a
clean place to live they’re going to
report issues they want you know timely
responses they want a clean you know
safe you know fixed up property so
they’re coming in with the request and
all the these two kind of you know you
know opposite kind of positions are both
going towards the property manager and
we didn’t want that additional stress in
our lives so that’s why we’re delegating
and happily paying part of our rental
income to someone else in this case a
property manager to do that crappy work
for us yeah no fair and I think working
backwards from your constraints is what
we teach right when we work with people
that come through our program is be
aware of and acknowledge your
constraints and then build your business
around that now what I’m about to say
Lessons Learned and Final Thoughts
though is that I did kind of the
opposite mostly out of ignorance when we
started i wasn’t part of a mastermind
group or community i didn’t take any
courses i didn’t know what Bigger
Pockets was until after we owned several
houses and the the main model that I had
to build off of was what I saw my
parents do because my parents are also
real estate investors and they mostly
self-managed their portfolio there’s
only a small period of time where they
had a third party manager and that was
when they had over I think they had 13
rentals total at that time and so that
was mostly a load management type thing
but so honestly like I didn’t really
question much i I kind of accepted the
default of what I saw them do and I just
assumed that’s what everyone did they
self-managed their properties because
they lived nearby even when they lived
far away from some of their properties
they still chose to do that it was you
know their systems were not very
sophisticated as far as like using rent
collection tools and all that but they
knew their way around how to solve
problems with stuff like maintenance and
that’s a big difference between them and
I because I’m not that person they’re
much more handy than I am so anyway
where I’m going with that though is that
like when we bought our first property
it was actually only one mile away so I
always talk about now we started as the
opposite of long-distance investors we
started with our property one mile away
and now our closest rental is 1,000
miles away but when it was one mile away
I I just had that kind of again default
assumption in my head that if something
went wrong I would just drive down the
street and take care of it but what you
come to understand is that the property
manager a good property manager does
more than just collect rent and you know
send out leases for signatures once a
year there there’s a lot more that goes
into it and so when you start to think
about like oh the 8% or the 10% that
you’re saving on the base rate uh it’s
it’s really a protection it’s almost an
insurance policy of uh how do you
protect your asset better so I actually
did some math on you know what we saved
over the course of 5 years of
self-management and on management fees
alone it was close to I think it was
$45,000 uh which is a lot of money but
over the course you know eight
properties over about 5 years you know
it’s a good chunk and of course that was
helpful to our bottom line but I also
think about the potential mistakes or
that we made or the things that we
overlooked or the lack of ability to
provide as informed of oversight as
someone who knew that how to take care
of a house better than we do like
there’s definitely some deferred
maintenance and items that popped up
that we if had we been more proactive or
more hands-on or available we probably
could have avoided or at least mitigated
some of that so I do think of property
management as also that 8% yeah it sucks
to pay that right off the top of your
your rent every month but if they’re
doing their job they can prevent far
more expensive things from happening and
coming and biting you and at the end of
the day when you’re running a portfolio
especially of multiple rental properties
you want it to be as predictable as it
can be so like you kind of know when
your roof is going to age out or when
your appliances are going to age out
within a few years like you can prepare
for that so that you can you can set
aside the appropriate money and all that
and that’s something a good property
manager can help you keep a pulse on so
if you’re going to self-manage we would
approach it very differently right now
than we did when we started because we
didn’t have much of anything by way of
systems like we we basically we built
out processes as they became necessary
so when we were going to advertise to
rent to a tenant we looked online and
figured out what were the free tools and
ways that we could advertise that okay
we found a site that allows you to
upload photos and list it great so we
use that and then okay we we got tenant
applications we need to screen those and
run run applications and go through a
review process call references etc we
kind of just made this stuff up as we
went and that was valuable in the sense
that there’s almost no better there’s
never a better way to learn than to do
but at the same time it was very time
inensive and we we made a lot of
avoidable mistakes as a result so I I
think of it as kind of like a university
almost like we we learned a lot of stuff
the hard way but in hindsight we would
have been much better equipped if we had
started with like a proven set of
systems or SOPs even if we wanted to
self-manage just using something that
someone had already successfully used
instead of making stuff up along the way
we would have been much better served
i’ll pause there i definitely have more
thoughts but see if you have anything to
add well well yeah i’m curious how many
do you still self-manage today do you do
any we have two and those two are the
residential assisted living homes that
we lease to an operator so they kind of
have a little bit of baked in management
and that they have a company that we
lease to so it’s a very different
relationship than if we were working
directly with a family or an individual
tenant well I’m curious because where I
was going with that is like how did this
change for you pre and post kids so I
Balancing Family and Property Management
think you were self-managing most of
your properties before you had kids
right yeah so an important part of my
story never to overlook is that you know
we went from dual income no kids to one
income one full-time W2 income and some
partial secondary income and three kids
in the course of three years and uh if
you’re trying to do the math we have
twins in there u but uh yeah I mean that
changed the game and I’ve told this
story before but I think it’s important
to to when you talk about the tipping
point of what made us make the change
during the birth of all of our children
in the hospital I got these petty
annoying calls from our tenants and
Exactly and by the way before that I
hadn’t gotten a call for several months
but it just so happened to perfectly
time around when we were in the hospital
trying to celebrate this beautiful
moment in our lives and uh and I would
argue they probably would not have
bothered you that much if you had gotten
those petty calls before uh if you were
not in the hospital you’d be like “Oh
okay i have rentals i deal with it.” But
it just changes if you’re spending time
with family exactly i didn’t mean to
interrupt but No no i mean the the cost
of those petty moments gets higher the
more you know kind of value you place on
your time around certain areas so like
we talked about you working backwards
from your constraints how you already
had kids and how you already knew that
you wanted to protect the your
priorities your your um obligation to
your employer your your obligation and
and responsibility to your family like
those things were non-negotiable and
they were always going to come first so
for me before we had kids I had a little
more flexibility to lean in and kind of
I was enjoying it frankly like I enjoyed
learning all this stuff and there was
enough cash flow on our properties that
yeah maybe I was making some mistakes or
doing things a little looser but it was
kind of like I was comfortable because
we we were we were just enjoying the
game we were finally rental property
owners we’re building a portfolio just
like I don’t know hooked hooked on the
journey but when you have kids it’s like
that’s a different journey growing in
your career is a different journey yeah
every single one of those takes space
and time and energy and at some point
you just have to start calculating like
what is the highest and best use of my
time and and I think those particular
instances in the hospital combined with
starting to really like look backwards
and say is it the best use of my time to
do this like minute bookkeeping or like
be coordinating calls with vendors or
just like hearing random stories
meaningless stories from my tenants that
want to just randomly vent in my
direction i just I don’t I don’t have
enough space in my in my life for that
right now how do you think about the
The Cost of Self-Management
$45,000 that you could be saving if you
were still property managing well keep
in mind that was over that was over
almost a 5year period it’s a lot of
money but you Yeah yeah but you could do
the same for the next 5 years right and
be like “Hey we’d be 45,000 you know
plus if I self-managed.” How do you
think about that today so what is that
9,000 a year my math’s probably horrible
um you know can I make more than that
doing something else um and is that
something else you know a better use of
my time that’s how I think about it at
this point I don’t think like the first
period of time in which we were creating
that savings I do think that was a good
use of my time because it taught me all
the skills that I needed and it taught
me how to think about property
management but and at the time I don’t
think I had another lever I could pull
where I could make more money than I was
saving there without taking on a full
second job of some sort but now I think
I’ve you know I’ve I’ve gained more
skills i’ve grown in my at my day job
like there are different levers I can
pull to create more income with less
stress and I’m okay with the idea of
somebody who’s more professional and
better than I am at that job and who
happens to be physically present at
those locations doing that job for me
because the 45,000 is not a um that’s
not a complete stat right you have to
remember there are definitely some
maintenance costs or things that
resulted from me not being there and
from me not being a professional
property manager that certainly drew
that number down not it didn’t get rid
of it it’s still a large savings but
there are things that I bet would have
been handled better and cost less money
had a different manager been running it
how do you apply those skills that you
learned self-managing today with your
Dealing with Property Managers
property manager well I have less
tolerance for for bad property managers
so you know in Iowa we’ve had quite a
journey we’re on our fourth property
manager right now there are periods
where we had to self-manage and had I
not learned what that looks like and how
to at a minimum navigate the different
motions I think I was saying earlier
it’s like people I think sometimes
there’s an assumption when you don’t
know what a property manager does that
they just collect rent and like maybe
they post a notice on someone’s door
every once in a while and then they like
resign the lease at the end of the year
but it’s a good property manager does so
much more than that so I think the
skills that I built of creating
relationships with different types of
vendors staying really organized on that
part doing all the tax and insurance
renewals like a lot of the portfolio
management stuff like that taught me all
the different motions that go into
running and managing a rental property
so when I see things slipping through
the cracks with our managers that were
paying I’m a bit more informed on how to
call them out about it i don’t think
it’s necessary to self-manage in order
to know what a manager is supposed to do
but I do think it made me more keenly
aware when certain things weren’t
happening and I also think that one
lesson we learned and we we’ve waffled
on this a little bit but uh the tenants
also need there there has to be some
sort of check and balance on your
property manager and one one instance in
Iowa in particular there was one of
these property managers that we no
longer work with was giving us the
impression and literally telling us that
they had done things that they hadn’t
been doing and it caused one of our
tenants to the the relationship turned
very sour she had no contact with us and
this was the second property manager
that had been working with her and it
she ended up getting in touch with us
through a Venmo request to my wife and
it was basically this giant note of all
the stuff that like wasn’t happening and
wasn’t supposed to happen and it caused
this huge problem right and so I I
realized basically that there was no
check and balance on this guy like he
was telling us stuff was happening and
it wasn’t happening and then it became
this big story of like the tenant said
this and he said that and so now we kind
of have this idea of like we at a
minimum will establish some sort of
contact with every single tenant we
don’t want a day to be involved in the
day-to-day and we make that very clear
but we at a minimum kind of offer up
this is how you can reach us like we we
want this to be a good hospitalitable
home environment we care about the
quality of um you know of your
experience here you’re in great hands
with so and so but we also would like to
know if something is happening that that
we need to be aware of so I think yeah
the self-management kind of gave us more
confidence to be able to be involved in
a different way than we would have
otherwise and uh and now we have like a
a better better relationship with our
property managers because I think they
understand or they think of us a
different way than if we I think that
the standard person might want to have
their hands completely off and just like
call me if the place is burning down
don’t ever talk to me otherwise um
that’s that’s not really how we are and
I think that has worked to our advantage
so far what’s the story with the four
property managers so obviously this one
here didn’t do stuff they were saying
they were doing but what about the first
and third oh goodness well we these are
we promised 20-minute episodes so that
might have to belong to another but
could be another one then okay in the in
the shortest sense right one of them was
essentially running a fraudulent
business and they went out of business
within 8 weeks of us hiring them that
was the first one the second one uh they
they were an agent and a property
manager and they ended up having to
choose one i think we the next topic to
dig into that will help explain a lot of
this is just the business business model
of property management is fundamentally
flawed people either have to get really
big in order to make enough profit but
when they get so big they have to hire
more people which erodess their profit
then they have to get bigger and these
companies just end up either getting too
big where the service suffers or they’re
too small and they don’t make enough
money and they decide to move on and so
we have had people that are too small
and we have had people that are too big
and in both scenarios it it didn’t work
out they weren’t doing what they said
they were going to do and they weren’t
able to deliver uh on the quality
service that we would want reflected at
the homes that we own maybe another
episode you’re right a lot to dig into
there yeah but I think the the point we
Conclusion and Call to Action
want to drive home here and why we
listed this as one of the five biggest
mistakes that new remote investors make
is property management is a little bit
more complex than people might think on
the surface when they’re first getting
into real estate and the decision of
whether to self-manage or hire a
property manager is one of the biggest
ones you’ll make that will determine the
lifestyle that you have as a rental
property owner being very conscious of
your constraints like how Nathan was and
being more conscious like I am now of
the potential cost of the burden of
property management is something worth
considering and spending some time on
before you make a decision hopefully we
gave you two good viewpoints on on kind
of our experience and uh some of the
pros and cons and uh you know hit us up
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