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How I Stayed Productive With Twins, a W2, and 8 Rentals

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After my wife and I had twins, my old routines fell apart, and traditional time blocking stopped making sense.

What did work was shifting from task-based scheduling to a simple...

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In this episode

Welcome back to the Hybrid Real Estate

Professional Podcast. The show where we

help you build wealth through real

estate investing in just 20 minutes a

day without sacrificing what matters

most. I’m your host, Aaron Amin. My wife

and I built a portfolio of eight cash

flowing rentals across three states

while working full-time and raising a

family. A large part of our early

success in building our portfolio came

from a system I like to call the 20inut

investor. Today’s show is a quick solo

episode about a new approach to time

blocking that, in my experience, is much

more likely to actually work. At least

it did for me.

Most people treat time blocking like a

diet. It works for a week, then real

life hits. A kid wakes up early, a

client meeting runs long, or your brain

just isn’t in gear. So, today I want to

share a new way of thinking about time

blocking, and it actually is based less

on the specific task and more about the

type of task. This is a core principle

from our 20-minute investor framework,

and it’s called offense verse defense.

When my wife and I had twins in late

2023, my schedule completely evaporated

as I knew it. I went from having a calm

5 a.m. morning routine that was very

structured and regimented to maybe

getting 4 hours of sleep per night and

very little predictability. For a while,

I beat myself up because I couldn’t keep

the same schedule that had got me to

where I was at that time. But

eventually, I realized something. Time

blocking doesn’t fail because I’m lazy.

It was failing because it assumed that

my life would be predictable. So the

solution for me was not to force more

structure into a time when it clearly

wasn’t designed for that. It’s to build

a system that adapts to the season of

life that you’re in. Enter offense

versus defense. So separating tasks into

offense versus defense is a pretty

simple idea actually. Instead of trying

to block time every day for a specific

task, you divide it into two buckets.

The first is offense. These are the

things that grow your business.

Networking, deal analysis, submitting

offers, creating content, anything that

builds some type of momentum that has

the potential for growth. Defense are

the things that protect what you’ve

built. paying bills, reviewing reports,

bookkeeping, checking in with your team,

renewing insurance, anything that can

protect your downside risk. Uh, and both

of those obviously are very important.

But here’s how that applies to time

blocks. Most people build their calendar

in a way where if you’re trying time

blocking, you try and put a specific

task and you plan it out six, seven days

in advance. And what happens is as

people feel constrained by these

obligations that they’ve set for

themselves, that works for some people,

but for others, they need a little more

flexibility and fluidity to the way they

approach time blocking. So for me, what

I ended up doing was actually setting up

uh time blocks based just on those

categories, offense versus defense. And

in prioritization for the week ahead, I

would actually look at how whatever

needed to be done for the coming week, I

would lay it out and I would see what’s

the kind of spread of offense versus

defense activities. What’s interesting

about this is that obviously different

seasons of life bring different

activities. So, for example, before we

had kids, we were acquiring houses very

quickly. At that point, my my calendar

was about 80% if not 100% offense tasks.

So, I was analyzing deals. I was sending

offers. I was very aggressive about

growing our business. Hey there. Before

we finish the show, I wanted to tell you

about the new school community I

launched with my business partner,

Nathan. We took our flagship remote real

estate investing course, an entire

library of workshops and templates, and

made them available for free. We had 50

members join in the first seven days,

and we’re in there every day helping

other investors scale their portfolio

sustainably in 20 minutes per day. You

can join for free at

araranamine.com/school.

That’s school with a K s k o l. Hope to

see you there. Now, back to the show.

Now, on the flip side, when we had the

twins and uh when we had our kids in

general, we flipped into a much more

defensive posture. So, I still had some

offense in the sense that I obviously he

run a podcast. I have still continued to

network and build relationships even

though I wasn’t in an active buying

posture. But most of the actual time

blocking that I did at that point was

around defense. So we did some

restructuring of our portfolio. We

tightened up some of the systems with

our property managers. We actually ended

up selling a couple houses that we felt

were no longer serving our long-term

interest. So kind of having these little

spaces to be very intentional and

specific about these defense activities

uh proved to be very important. But the

point about the time blocking is that

instead of trying to forecast 14 days in

advance, 7 days in advance, uh it was

more block the time, protect it, lay out

what needs to be done, and every day you

know you have that protected time and

you can slide whichever task is needed

that you feel will need will move the

needle the most. Um so the other reason

this system actually works is because it

aligns with Parkinson’s law. the idea

that work expands to fill the time

available. So if you give yourself an

hour for these tasks, you’ll probably

take that entire hour. But one of our

prevailing philosophies in the coaching

that I do and in the academy that I run

is if you give yourself 20 minutes,

you’ll find a way to squeeze the value

out of that 20 minutes. And a lot of

what we’ve taught and and you this has

been proven in the way that I built my

portfolio, in the way that my business

partners built his portfolio. If you

assign yourself those constraints, the

majority of activities, especially when

it comes to rental real estate, can fit

into those blocks. So rather than time

blocking full days and trying to color

code my calendar a bunch of different

ways, which I believe can work under

certain circumstances, I try and protect

20 minutes per day. I try and label it

offense or defense. I try and create a

list of tasks and slide them in as

needed. I know I’ve repeated that a few

times, but that’s because I feel

confident that this is a much more

flexible and effective way of time

blocking for busy people. Uh I usually

typically b my week out on uh Sunday

night. So I I put those time blocks

where it looks like it’s going to make

sense based on my work schedule and then

uh I I make that task list. And I think

just doing that one simple thing that

also only takes 20 minutes. And um doing

that sets me up well for the week and it

makes me a much more effective investor.

It protects my time which then in turn

makes me a much better husband and

father which at the end of the day is

what is most important to me. So that is

a little bit behind the scenes of how I

time block. We actually have an entire

workshop called the 20-minut investor

that’s available for free at

20inutinvestor.com

and uh you can download actually not

only the workshop, it’s about 50-minute

workshop. We have an accompanying

document that breaks down this entire

philosophy and and even some more

detail. And then uh my business partner

Nathan and I actually put together a

bunch of different workflows that we’ve

used, different examples of offense

versus defense activities. We got Loom

videos that break down how we approached

it in our lives. uh so you could put

that into practice right away. So if you

enjoyed this, I’d love to hear from you.

I always appreciate getting feedback on

whether you like the topics I’m covering

or not. So shoot me a DM, drop me a

comment wherever you’re listening to

this and check out the 20-minute

investor. Appreciate your time and best

of luck. Thank you for making it to the

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